Older men don’t date younger women despite their age and youth, older men date younger women for their age and youth. I know it can feel good when an older men acts like you’re special and above everyone else, and that you have some special maturity that no other woman your age has. Those are lies. An older man dating a younger woman isn’t special or exclusive. It’s extremely common. In fact, on average, men tend to see women at their peak in their early 20s and start seeing them as more and more expired as they age.
i’ve never really been the one to do a long text post. Lately, I’ve come to realise that writing relieves some anxious thoughts running through my mind. Throughout all the years I’ve been on tumblr, not once did I use it like an actual blog.
Right now, in this moment, I am content with my life. Alhamdulillah, I am not where I want to be but I’m okay with that.
I’ve struggled to maintain friendships during my lifetime, and recently connecting with a few made me think about whether I’d made the right decisions. Every so often, I yearned for a particular person. They left me a while ago and though I received some sort of closure, I just didn’t feel completes a human.
Another friend, I grew up with, went to school with; just disappeared. I show up unannounced, worried for her safety and wellbeing. She is fine. We talk as if nothing has change, but really they have. She didn’t want to be found.
I forget to take her new number, her address also changes. I’ve lost her again.
I think the biggest lesson I’ve learnt in my twenties, is that sometimes you want to start afresh without any of your past hanging onto you. Sometimes you want to reconnect with someone, but respect the decision that they might not want to reconnect with you.
I just wanna say to every man out there, not my man but also my man, you are all soooooooooo predictable you guys have never once done something that surprised me I always know exactly what the fuck u are doing and so does everyone else how must that feel
